Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Miami Bound

It's official (finally)...we are moving to Miami next semester!  It is a bittersweet time for us.  Scott is anxious to finish up basic sciences and get into the clinical environment.  He is ready to meet patients and see what it is like to actually work as a doctor.  I am looking forward to returning to work and being closer to friends and family.  And we are both excited to discover our temporary new home together.  We are also sad to say goodbye to some dear friends.  Everyone is starting to go their separate ways and the people we now see every day will be scattered among the different clinical sites.  Several of our close friends will be joining us in Miami but others are staying here or moving to Michigan.  In all of this we are trusting God...confident that we are on the path He has chosen and excited to see what He has in store for us.

I am so thankful for the opportunity to live in Dominica for this brief season of life.   I am grateful that I was able to live in a 3rd world country without modern conveniences; I have learned to be resourceful  and make due with what's available in many aspects of life.  It has been challenging physically, mentally and spiritually.  I've spent  a lot of time alone with my thoughts and as a result have learned a lot about myself...many things I am trying to change.  I realize this is all very vague but I think if I were to put it all into words this blog post would turn into a novel.  Some things I will miss...walking out my front door and seeing the Caribbean Sea, having lunch with Scott every day, Sunday afternoon Scrabble games with the Green Homes' girls, walking,  seeing someone I know everywhere I go, the cool breeze after a rainstorm, clean air, and vibrant rainbows.  I will also miss our teeny-tiny (260 sq ft.) apartment.  Living in such a tight space has taught us a lot about communication.  It is also kind of nice to be able to have a conversation when I am in the kitchen and he is in the shower.  Things I won't miss about Dominica include: sweating profusely all the time, the bugs, the constant trail of ants in our apartment, the really terrible coffee produced here (carburetor fluid might taste better), and Chinese food (from any of the dozen restaurants within .5 mile of campus).

Here's the plan.  We leave Dominica on April 27th and arrive in Waco on April 28th.  We will spend a few days in Texas gathering our belongings and then begin the road trip to Miami (which will hopefully include a visit to Baton Rouge).  We would like to be in Miami on May 3rd so we can get settled and Scott can prepare for his Comprehensive Exam on May 14th (this exam covers everything he has learned in Med School thus far).  During the next month I have to sell our belongings, find a place to live in Miami, and find a job.  Scott is busy preparing for his next 3 exams of the semester (ICM practical on April 7, 3rd Mini exam on April 14, and the Final exam on April 22).  Please keep us in your prayers..specifically pray for a smooth transition and that we are able to find a great apartment at a reasonable price.  Pray for Scott to have strength to finish out the semester and to stay focused as he prepares for exams.  I'll keep you posted on our preparations and our final adventures on the island. 

Monday, March 22, 2010

Salybia 5K

If you know me well, then you know how much I hate running.  It may surprise you to know that I ran my first 5K yesterday; finishing in just over 30 minutes.  Scott has been trying to convince me to start running for the last 2 years.  I adamantly refused.  Then in January I decided to give it a try.  This semester Scott began setting his alarm for 6am Monday - Saturday and decided to go running Monday, Wednesday and Friday mornings.  Once I discovered that I could not sleep through the alarm I decided to get up and join him.  The first run was nothing spectacular...I don't even think I completed a mile but it was enough to boost my confidence.  From there I tried to increase my time with each run.  I soon made it up to 20 minutes and even recruited some friends to join me for the early morning runs.  Training was going well until a few weeks ago.  Then a series of events made sleeping in more appealing...my stomach virus, Scott's sleepless nights leading up to Mini 2 and then of course, Dora.  

When I started running my goal was to run in the Salybia 5K.  Each semester Salybia (a student group on campus) hosts a 5K run as a fundraiser.  Sign ups were last week and I was hesitant to sign up because the last few runs were painful and discouraging.  Scott encouraged me to go ahead and give it a try...so on Thursday we both signed up for the run on Sunday.  Sunday morning we woke up at 6am and realized that neither of us had let Dora out all night.  She slept in her crate for 7.5 hours without a peep.  I was so proud of her and so grateful for the uninterrupted night of sleep.  I felt great but was also extremely nervous.  My biggest fear was finishing last.

After a quick breakfast we headed to campus for the race which was scheduled to start at 7am.  We arrived at the front gates shortly after 7 and checked in.  Then we stretched while we waited for the race to begin.  I grew increasingly nervous as we waited but Scott continued to reassure me that I could do it and I would not be last.  The race began at 7:34.  Scott took off and I tried to get my bearings.  I started out faster than normal and soon hit a reasonable pace.  I ran alone and prayed for God's strength.  There were no mile markers up so I had no idea how I was doing.  The course began at the main gate in front of campus, went through Portsmouth and ended at Cabrits National Park.  As I ran through town I had to be conscious to get out of the way of cars, the locals and even a family of chickens.  I finally made it through town and knew I was getting close.  I was out of breath but thankfully my legs felt great.  I came around a small bend and then had a beautiful view of the Caribbean to my left.  There was a strong breeze from behind that gave me a little boost of speed.  Within moments I spotted the finish line and saw Scott there waiting for me.  I ran as fast as I could go.  I was so happy to cross the finish line...and no, I was not the last one in.  Scott gave me a big sweaty hug and then took me to get water.  After awards were passed out and photos taken we loaded up on a bus and headed home.  We ate homemade pancakes and then Scott had to go to campus to study.  Dora and I slept for most of the afternoon.



 Last weekend was Scott's farewell banquet.  We had a great time getting dressed up and hanging out with our friends.  Dora spent the evening with our friends Dana and Nicole and had a lot of fun chasing their cats.  Here is a photo from the event.


From left to right: Scott, Whitney, Jen, Neil, Sarah, Ryan, Jennifer and Nick. 

We are still waiting to find out where we will be living in May.  The decision was delayed last week after some "unforeseen events".  Students are supposed to be notified tomorrow (March 23).  I will let you know as soon as we find out.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Dora the Explorer

Dora is a curious little puppy.  She is growing like a weed and discovering something new each day.  On Friday one of her siblings came over to play in the morning.  Leila is twice the size of Dora and immediately pinned her little sister to the ground.  Dora is a bold puppy but being the runt of the litter she is used to her siblings overpowering her.  She knows her rank in the litter and did not fight back.  I was relieved when they finally fell asleep.


At noon they had an appointment on campus to get their first puppy vaccination.  I loaded them in the pet carrier and walked to campus.  I arrived 10 minutes early thinking I could get them in and out and meet Scott for lunch shortly after noon.  I have no idea what I was thinking...I guess I forgot I was in Dominica.  We arrive at the administration building and ask to see the vet on campus.  I found her office but it was empty.  So I went back to the lobby to wait.  Her litter mates began to arrive with their new owners and by noon we were all there waiting.  Finally at 12:15 the doctor came to the lobby to call us back to her office.  She looked confused  and said she was only expecting 2 puppies, not 4.  She had enough vaccine for 3 of the puppies so we decided Leila would wait since she has not been adopted yet.  We waited a few minutes while the doctor gathers supplies.  Meanwhile Dora is growing increasingly restless and whiny.  Around 12:30 we discover that the doctor needs to go to the clinic to get some syringes.  However before she goes to the clinic she decides to help Shannon (one of the puppy owners) remove stitches from her older dog Lily who was recently spayed.  That took awhile.  After a potty break Dora fell asleep while we continued to wait our turn.  Eventually 3 of the pups received their vaccinations and general exam.  Dora was very good and did not cry.  We finally got to meet Scott for lunch at 1:15.  While we were eating our friend Sarah stopped by to pick up Leila.  I took Dora home.  She was worn out and proceeded to sleep for the rest of the afternoon.

Friday night a group on campus threw a huge party called Splash Bash.  The debauchery began around 10pm and lasted until 4am.  Scott and I did not attend but could hear the music from our apartment.  We spent time praying for the students and asking that the party end early.  I mention all of this because at 3am Dora woke up.  I was sound asleep at this point and zombie-like as I picked her up and headed out the door.  I unlocked the door and turned the knob...then the doorknob came out of my hand and suddenly the door was open and a man was standing in our doorway.  I backed up and began to scream uncontrollably.  The guy did not move and did not say a word.  Scott jumped out of bed and began yelling at the guy to leave.  He walked away and we calmed down a bit.  He was obviously intoxicated and apologized explaining he was just looking for #7 (we live in #12).  Our landlord came outside to check on the commotion.  I have never been so frightened in my life.  I was grateful that it was just a misunderstanding but it didn't make falling back asleep any easier.  I feel incredibly safe where we live but for that brief moment I began to question.  

Saturday morning Dora and I took a trip to the grocery store while our apartment was being cleaned.  I carried her in my messenger bag and she was very content.  When we got home she took a nap.  I woke her up around 1pm because we had a play-date with our neighbor's puppy, Chance.  Chance was rescued about 7 weeks ago by our friends (and neighbors) Kelsey and Jordan.  He was approx 6 weeks old at the time and covered in fleas, bloody bite marks, and mange.  It took lots of TLC to get him healthy again.  He has an intense fear of other dogs and we decided that playing with a smaller dog that couldn't hurt him might be good for him.  When we first arrived Chance was visibly frightened; his heart was beating rapidly and he was shaking.  Dora was excited to meet her new playmate.  


It took some time but Chance eventually warmed up to Dora and they played well together.  Chance got a little rough at times but stopped when he saw that it hurt her.  By the end of the play session they seemed to be friends.  Chance even let Dora climb on him and bite him without getting upset.  We plan to get them together often for little play dates to help socialize them.


Dora is a sweet puppy and we are having fun with her.  I have some cute videos of her but I have no idea how to post them.  Hopefully I will figure that out soon.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

A Mini, a Power Outage and a Puppy

The title pretty much sums up Monday.  Scott had his second exam; referred to as a Mini at 8:00am Monday morning.  The plan was to meet him on campus after the exam was over and head to the beach for a picnic and some sun.  I was bummed when we woke up and the storm that arrived Sunday night had not passed through yet.  I was grateful for the rain since we had not received any in 3 weeks and it has been blazing hot lately...but I really wanted Scott to be able to enjoy the beach on his one free afternoon of the month.  I spent the morning praying for Scott and his classmates, preparing his special post-mini brunch and hoping the clouds would pass.  It rained off and on throughout the morning and at 10:30 am we lost power.  This is not uncommon on the island...sometimes the power company just can't keep up with demand.  Scott finished his exam around noon and came home.  It was still raining and did not look like it would clear up any time soon.  We feasted on breakfast burritos, chips and salsa and toasted the end of the exam with a Kubuli.  The power came back on soon after he arrived home so we closed all the windows, turned on the AC (a special treat) and watched tv.

Later that afternoon we went over to see our friends Sarah and Ryan and visit a couple of rescued puppies.  Sarah is the president of PAWS, an organization on campus that cares for the stray animals.  The goals of PAWS include spaying and neutering adult dogs and cats and finding homes for the strays.  On Sunday, February 28th Sarah went to check out a litter of puppies that a student had sighted the day before.  The mama dog was hiding the litter in the woods so her owner would not find them.  This is her 4th litter since January 2009 and only one puppy from the previous litter is still alive.  The owner does not want to care for her puppies so she it is rumored that she has sold previous litters to local fisherman to use as fishbait.  That being said the owner also refuses to agree to have the dog spayed.  The puppies appeared to be 6 weeks old and the mom was very malnourished and no longer producing enough milk to feed the 5 puppies.  So Sarah took 2 of the puppies and a couple of students took the other 3.  Before Christmas Scott and I began discussing taking an island dog home with us.  We weighed the pros and cons and decided if we found a puppy that we both liked then we would adopt it and take it back to the US with us.  That Sunday I went over to Sarah's to play Scrabble with her and Monique.  I was immediately drawn to the runt of the litter...a little female that later received the name Dora.  Last week I ran into Sarah and the pups multiple times and fell more in love with little Dora each time.  Scott was engrossed in studying and in no position to make an important decision.  I told him all about the puppies and how I could not stop thinking about Dora.  He got to meet her Monday afternoon and he too fell in love with her.  That night we decided that she needed to be part of our family.


Tuesday afternoon I brought Dora home.  She explored our apartment and found some good places to take a nap.  I wasn't sure how she would do last night but she slept for 5 hours straight and did not have an accident in her bed.  She woke up whimpering so I took her outside.  She did her business and then we went back inside and she chowed down on her puppy food.  She went back to sleep for about 30 minutes and then the alarm went off.  I got her to go back to sleep and then Scott and I went for a short run.  When we got home she was crying and trying desperately to get out of her makeshift bed (a Rubbermaid storage bin).  She whined for quite a while and wanted someone to cuddle her.  Scott held her in his lap while he ate breakfast and I showered.  I gave her some milk then let her fall asleep in my lap.  Scott picked her up and set her near her favorite napping spot.

This morning she actually crawled between the laundry bag and the wall and slept for a couple of hours.  We are very excited about the new puppy and can't wait to introduce her to Dennis next month.

In other news, Scott received his preliminary exam scores and he did really well!  He has been studying very hard the last few weeks and I am very proud of him.  This Saturday is the 4th Semester Banquet (aka - Med School Prom).  Everyone dresses up for the dinner.  We are looking forward to spending the evening with our friends.  Then on March 19th we will find out where we are moving in May...either Saginaw, MI or Miami, FL.  Saginaw is kind of a longshot...but you never know.  I will update everyone when we find out. 

A Day in the Life of a Housewife

I know many of you are wondering what I do all day.  In fact that is the number 1 question I get.  Well here is a little insight.  Saturday morning I woke up early...primarily because Scott woke up at 6am so he could study and he insisted on talking to me until I finally gave in and got out of bed.  Also I was planning to watch a couple of puppies that morning while my friend Sarah went to the capital to do some grocery shopping.  Sarah had to cancel her trip and so I was left with a free day.  I decided to spend the day cooking.  I loved to cook before I came here and was looking forward to trying new ingredients and cooking lots of tasty meals.  I soon discovered that cooking here is a little more difficult than it was back home for many reasons.  First, ingredients common in the US are difficult to find here...broccoli (and most other green vegetables), sour cream, lettuce, canned soups (really expensive and sometimes out of stock), mushrooms, and the list goes on and on.  Second, you can't buy meal starters...packages of frozen vegetables, biscuit mix, refrigerated dough, etc.  Third, I do not have some basic kitchen tools like an electric mixer.  As a result I have learned to make a lot of things from scratch.  I began the day by baking a loaf of bread.  I started baking bread over the Christmas break and now I really enjoy it.  The bread sold in Dominica is baked fresh daily, because no preservatives are used.  It is great the first day but soon becomes as hard as a brick.  The wheat bread is very dense and dry.  Also, it is very common for stores to run out of bread early in the morning or for there not to be any bread for a few days.  You can guarantee if there is a holiday on Friday or Monday there will be no bread for several days.  This is the reason I began baking my own bread and continued because it is delicious and I love the way the aroma fills the apartment.  Here is a picture of the finished product.


While the bread dough was rising I went to campus and had lunch with Scott.  I picked up some pizza from Perky's and we grabbed one of our favorite picnic tables on campus over looking the Caribbean Sea.  It was a beautiful day and we enjoyed a peaceful and relaxing lunch.  When it was time for Scott to get back to the books I headed home to put the bread in the oven.  While the bread was baking I mixed up some dough for Cinnamon Rolls.  This is one of our favorite weekend breakfast treats because I can mix them one day and let them rise overnight then bake them in the morning.  I did not take a picture of the Cinnamon Rolls but they were yummy.  Next it was time to make dinner...Enchiladas.  I prepared the Enchilada sauce and while it was simmering I sauteed some onions and then browned the ground turkey.  Then I rolled the meat in flour tortillas, covered them with sauce and shredded cheddar cheese and baked them for half an hour.


I do spend quite a bit of time preparing meals and grocery shopping.  When I first arrived it was a source of stress and felt like a chore.  Over time I have become more comfortable substituting ingredients and improvising recipes when needed.  It no longer bothers me that I do not have an electric mixer, or a blender, or the fact that I only have one skillet.  It takes a little extra time but there is something very satisfying about creating something from a few simple ingredients like flour, water, yeast, sugar and oil.

Here is a list of my favorite websites for recipes...
http://allrecipes.com/
http://www.hillbillyhousewife.com/category/recipes
http://www.joyofbaking.com/

Stayed tuned to find out about other activities that fill my day.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Boiling Lake

Shortly after moving to Dominica I realized that in order to truly enjoy island life I would have to venture outside my comfort zone and adopt some new hobbies.  Gone were the days of leisurely walks around the block, trips to the mall, and relaxing days at the spa.  I traded in my strappy sandals for a pair of Keen's and learned to hike.  I began with the hill that we live on...referred to by students as "the big hill."  For weeks (or maybe a couple of months) the 10 minute walk from Ross campus to our apartment left me completely out of breath and caused my calves and thighs to scream with pain.  When walking home became less of a challenge I decided to branch out and try some of the "easy" hikes on the island.  I soon discovered that "easy" refers to length (meaning 2 hours or less) rather than difficulty level because on these so-called "easy" hikes I found myself crossing rivers, climbing over boulders, and climbing up the side of a cliff holding onto a rope.  I never played sports growing up and have always been a bit clumsy so even these "easy" hikes were challenging.  After living here for a couple of months I set the goal of tackling one of the difficult hikes. 

Dominica is home to the world's second largest hot spring...Boiling Lake.  The hike to Boiling Lake is considered an extreme hike.  On a good day it takes 6 hours to complete the hike but it has taken groups as long as 10 hours.  Guides encourage hikers to get an early start (shortly after sunrise) to make sure they are back at the trail head before sunset.  When you mention Boiling Lake you get mixed reactions from students and spouses.  Most people I talked to said it was tiring but totally worth it.  Of course then there are stories of rainy days when the trail is a muddy mess, and students that have to be carried out because they physically could not walk any further.  My biggest concern about the hike was that I was not physically fit enough to complete the hike.  I don't know how many times I asked Scott if he thought I could physically handle it before I signed up for the hike.  Finally I got the courage in November to attempt the hike with RSO (Ross Spouses Organization).  I was nervous but also anxious to mark it off my to do list.  Two days before the hike it was canceled because there were not enough people signed up.  I was disappointed.  Then a few weeks later a friend of ours decided to organize a group to do the hike.  Once again I spent a week trying to gear myself up mentally for the challenge...that trip fell through as well.  

I finally had the opportunity to see Boiling Lake on February 20.  I was very nervous the day before the hike and slept very little that night.  I was so nervous that I would be overcome by physical exhaustion and/or pain and not be able to complete the all day hike.  Thankfully a couple of my good friends were on the trip, Neil (Scott's classmate) and his wife Jen.  The day began early.  We had to meet the bus at 7 AM for the 1.5 hour bus ride to the trail head.  The drive was uneventful until we got lost.  Apparently it had been a few years since our driver/guide had been to Boiling Lake.  This bit of information added to the overall anxiety level on the bus.  After a couple of phone calls and stopping to speak with other locals we started back in the right direction.  Then our driver did something we all considered strange...he stopped to pick up a guide.  This is strange because he was hired under the assumption that he would be our guide.  We arrived at our destination around 9 AM.  That is when the guide mentioned that his fee was $150 USD/ per person.  None of  us had that much money with us, nor were we willing to pay that price.  That is our  entire weekly budget.  Sam (the trip coordinator) let the guide know his services would not be needed.  She had completed the hike before and was confident we could figure it out on our own.  So then we had to wait while the bus driver took the guide back home.  At this point everyone was frustrated and anxious because it was getting late.  We finally began the hike at 9:15.

The beginning of the hike felt like a casual stroll through the forest.  Then we reached the stairs...hundreds of stairs.  There were groups of stairs that were incredibly steep and others that inclined gradually.  Some were a few inches tall and others were a couple of feet high.  For roughly and hour and a half we climbed up stairs.

Then we reached the top of Morne Nichols, our first rest stop.  The day was beautiful.  The sun was hidden behind the clouds and there was a cool, strong breeze at the top of the peak.  We sat for a while, ate a snack and enjoyed the view.  We had no idea how much longer it would be until we reached our destination so we did not sit there for very long.  We continued climbing up hill until we came to a river crossing.  The riverbed was dry and filled with huge boulders that we had to climb down.  For the next hour or so we climbed over huge rocks.  This was my least favorite part of the hike because I felt so unsteady.  I made it through with some help.  We soon reached the next major landmark...the Valley of Desolation.  This area was truly beautiful.  The rocks were shades of gray, white and green with little gray streams of sulfur running throughout.  The sulfur smell was strong...similar to rotting eggs.  


At that point we could see the steam rising from the lake in the distance.  We were close and decided to press on.  The rest of the way was uphill.  At this point the trail was less defined.  There were no stairs to climb...just natural footholds in the cliffs.  Finally after just over 3 hours of hiking we arrived at the Boiling Lake.  There was a heavy mist of sulfur in the air and visibility was low.  We stayed there for about an hour and enjoyed our lunches.  Every once in a while a breeze would come through and clear the mist providing a better view of the lake.  My legs and back were stiff but nothing like I had imagined.

The second leg of the journey seemed to go quicker than the first.  The sun emerged from the clouds but we still enjoyed the cool breeze on the peaks.  My legs were tired and numb but they kept moving me forward.  The trip back was primarily downhill.  I was grateful to get all of the climbing out of the way early in the day.  We finished the hike at 4:15...a total of 7 hours.  We stopped to rest and stretch for a while before getting back on the bus for the trip home.  My body was tired and I knew I would be sore the next day.  We got back to campus at 6:30 PM and Scott had dinner waiting for me at home.  I showered and then we sat on the bed and ate pizza and I told him all about my day.  Then he went back to studying and I dozed while watching Love Actually.  The next day I went over to a friends house to play Scrabble.  My calves and thighs were really sore and my legs felt a little like Jello.

Later that night, after dinner, I became very ill.  My stomach started to spasm and I will leave out the details but basically I spent the better part of the next 12 hours in the bathroom.  I lost every bit of food I had eaten and could not keep fluids down.  Scott and I got very little sleep that night.  I was so thankful that he did not get sick.  I went to the health clinic the next day (Monday) and they took some blood and a stool sample.  Then for the next 2 days I stayed in bed (with the air conditioner running) trying to replenish fluids and get some food back in my body.  Scott took good care of me.  He made sure I drank plenty of water and let me sleep.  I went back to the clinic on Wednesday to go over the lab results with the doctor.  The results were inconclusive but it appeared to be a bacterial infection.  It took almost a week to fully rehydrate, regain strength and get my appetite back.

That's what has been going on here.  Scott has his second exam on March 8th.  Please pray for him this week as he is studying very hard.  He's been having trouble sleeping at night so please pray for rest.